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 Topic: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell

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  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #90 - June 10, 2012, 06:44 PM

    I want to see a picture of you yeezevee! Now finmad ....or else... -_-




     grin12

    that is NOT my post.. Tongue  ..

    read it here




    I know it's not, I was commenting on your general posts, whilst I had you here... Tongue

    "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." - Viktor E. Frankl

    'Life is just the extreme expression of complex chemistry' - Neil deGrasse Tyson
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #91 - June 10, 2012, 06:58 PM

    Here is a related story:

    http://dawn.com/2012/06/09/wherever-there-is-a-wall-of-separation-i-want-to-tear-it-down/
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #92 - June 10, 2012, 07:00 PM

    .............Now finmad ....or ..............

     grin12

    I know it's not, I was commenting on your general posts, whilst I had you here... Tongue

    mmm.. O.k.,  How about this post Stardust

    Do not let silence become your legacy  
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #93 - June 10, 2012, 07:01 PM


    weasel.....................    lol....

    Do not let silence become your legacy  
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #94 - June 10, 2012, 07:03 PM

    mmm.. O.k.,  How about this post Stardust


    You're mean, and there I was in admiration of you and your posts (be them difficult to read).... Roll Eyes

    Remind me not to nominate you for POTM again.

    "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." - Viktor E. Frankl

    'Life is just the extreme expression of complex chemistry' - Neil deGrasse Tyson
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #95 - June 10, 2012, 07:20 PM

    that is NOT my post.. Tongue  ..

    read it here



    That was a really excellent and sad story yeezevee, thanks for sharing. Fuck Desi culture, it would be worse than HELL having Desi in-laws! If I ever marry, I'm going to marry a non-Pakistani and if my parents don't accept it then it's too bad for them.  finmad
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #96 - June 10, 2012, 07:33 PM

    My family have already gave up their hope that i may get married soon, so am no longer worried about this issue anymore dance

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #97 - June 10, 2012, 09:33 PM

    I simply had NO idea that men being forced to marry could be such an issue !

    Learned something today !

     thnkyu

    Juan Karl

    El bien mas preciado / es la libertad
    hay que defenderla / con fe y valor.
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #98 - June 10, 2012, 09:54 PM

    You're mean,

    I know i am so sorry. I posted that link just to know whether you understand the language in it... NO ULTERIOR MOTIVES.. Stardust
     
    Quote
    ....and there I was in admiration of you and your posts (be them difficult to read).... Roll Eyes  

    Remind me not to nominate you for POTM again.

    pleas don't  lol..  .. I only  got one vote and that is your vote.. Cry Cry


    So here is a quiz to find out "how mean we are"

    Do not let silence become your legacy  
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #99 - June 10, 2012, 09:57 PM

    I know i am so sorry. I posted that link just to know whether you understand the language in it... NO ULTERIOR MOTIVES.. Stardust
     pleas don't  lol..  .. I only  got one vote and that is your vote.. Cry Cry


    So here is a quiz to find out "how mean we are"


    Don't like you any more yeezevee

    "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." - Viktor E. Frankl

    'Life is just the extreme expression of complex chemistry' - Neil deGrasse Tyson
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #100 - June 10, 2012, 09:57 PM

    That was a really excellent and sad story yeezevee, thanks for sharing. Fuck Desi culture, it would be worse than HELL having Desi in-laws! If I ever marry, I'm going to marry a non-Pakistani and if my parents don't accept it then it's too bad for them.  finmad

    Wow, that's kinda harsh.

    I think it depends on what kind of in-laws they are. Loads of Pakistanis are very mod (my parents being one of them--NOT THAT I'M SELLING MYSELF TO YOU Tongue). But my sister married into a family who have settled here way before us, so they have kept their culture intact (annoyingly). Everyone in their family is older, so they are less likely to change. So while they're more "Pakistani", their kids are also more rebellious.

    I also don't think this is exclusively a Pakistani/Indian problem. I'm pretty sure my Chinese friends go through something similar re: parents controlling lives and not integrating fully. It's just the way it is, being an immigrant and all.

    Anyway, actually regarding the topic: I think I have very little sympathy. Tongue Maybe in a few years haha.

    Self ban for Ramadan (THAT RHYMES)

    Expect me to come back a Muslim. Cool Tongue j/k we'll see..
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #101 - June 12, 2012, 09:56 AM

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=DuGhi-WlBEU#!

    What a pathetic father....  no.. no.. he is no parent.. he is criminal bastard..

    that is from Saudi Arabia  Apparently a leaked video




    Do not let silence become your legacy  
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #102 - June 15, 2012, 06:30 AM

    I was listening to the radio the other day when a song popped into my head...


    "Live a good life. If there are god(s) and they are just, you will be rewarded based on virtue. If they're unjust, then you shouldn't want to worship them. If there are no gods, you will have lived a noble life that will live on in the memories of others."

    -Re-interpretation of Marcus Aurelius
  • Re: Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #103 - June 16, 2012, 12:30 AM

    My family have already gave up their hope that i may get married soon, so am no longer worried about this issue anymore dance


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_j9QeUoPOi4

    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Men are forced into marriage in Islam aswell
     Reply #104 - June 26, 2017, 12:49 PM

       Just came across this old thread. Since I dropped that ‘men are on the winning end of a relationship’ mindset, I began to see that too. In my culture whenever something goes wrong with a man, depression, video game addiction and so on, people will say “get him a wife; he will be ‘fixed’ once he has a woman running his own house and governing his behavior.” And when that marriage inevitably comes to the verge of collapse, they say “let them have a child; he will be ‘fixed’ once he has a child of his blood.” They think if they place enough burdens on a man’s shoulders, they can morally blackmail him into surrendering his stubbornness and succumbing to the wisdom of the elderly, and then they can declare him ‘fixed’. (How I hate that word!) They don’t care what is going on in his mind, or heart, as long as he has wedded and fathered, he is good.
       It's not only the wife and children that are used as means to an end; men are victims too.
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