Well it weren't all me lol got to thank Jack for his bitterness/gratitude thread. Whilst I still don't agree that gratitude is the alternative he is right, bitterness is just a silly way to spend the rest of my life.
Plus you could sort of tell that I'm not feeling the same way on this topic anymore when I was aksed to respond to his latest statement. None of the lies riled me up, I didn't feel driven into a tit for tat thing. I just read it and replied to my solicitor that there was nothing I wished to respond to in it.
I went upstairs to tuck my 6yr old son into last week, and as I plumped up his pillow I found a picture of his dad that he had put under his pillow and where a few years ago I might have been upset that they hold him in high regard inspite of everything, I just felt this rush of tenderness towards my son and happiness that they love their father.
It's taken me awhile, I thought I'd never get there and that I'd be angry forever, righteous fury and rage lol
Seperate issue, my cat and kitty are finally snuggled up together. I thought they would never get there too.