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  • i miss god
     OP - May 02, 2009, 10:19 AM

    due to few unfortunate circumstances i am in desperate need of money,job,sometime for my self,an extension on my student visa, and chances for geting each one of these,in pure logical terms ,are bleak.
    for last few days i couldnt help but saying the words for example,if god willing(inshallah)or god is gracious.and when i say any of these words my friends look at me like i am an alien(because i claim to be an atheist)
    i think i miss god.or atleast there should be something on which you can rely on when nothing seems to work.
    what do you guys do in an hopeless situation?

    ?Religion is an insult to human dignity. With or without it, you'd have good people doing good things and evil people doing bad things, but for good people to do bad things, it takes religion.?

     Steven Weinberg quotes
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #1 - May 02, 2009, 10:26 AM

    What do I do in hopeless situation?

    Think just like you do. I'm in a very similar situation to you, and things are looking very bleak...I sometimes miss having god around because I feel hypocritical if I blame god for it when I don't even believe in him...other times I wish he did exist.

    I haven't really got any close friends in this country, they are all in the UK so I haven't experienced the feeling like an alien yet...not looking forward to it though since most of my friends do believe in god.

    All I can say is hang on...we can only hope that things get better.  far away hug

    I take it you really don't want to go back to Pakistan then? My mum really wants me to go there, but I need to sort out my life before I can take such a big step. I haven't been there in almost 18 years.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #2 - May 02, 2009, 11:45 AM

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #3 - May 02, 2009, 03:30 PM

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?


    Your lack of belief in god?
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #4 - May 02, 2009, 04:09 PM

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?


    Your lack of belief in god?



    Its based on what? 
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #5 - May 02, 2009, 04:48 PM

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?


    Your lack of belief in god?



    Its based on what? 


    The burden of proof is on the claimant, if someone wants to claim that God exists they must bring proof. No one has to disprove a negative.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #6 - May 02, 2009, 04:57 PM

    You know, I've been thinking about this topic very recently. I too miss god when times are tough. But I after some deep thought I realized that to put your confidence in a god during hard times simply means to not put confidence in yourself. Don't think I'm scrutinizing you or anything, I'm sure you have done everything you could, and things still seem bleak.

    I believe we still cling to god because most of us have been conditioned to do so. No matter how much we deny god now, this conditioning will still continue to be part of our lives. It made a seal in our subconscious mind. The more faith a person had growing up, the harder it'll be to ignore such conditioning later when one lets go of the faith.

    During tough times, I sometimes wish god was real. But then I look around myself and see that there are a lot of people, more in need, that too wish god was real. People die of starvation, and diseases, and prays to god for help. And yet, no god to be found. Half the time such wishful thinking comes true, half the time it doesn't. So from now on, whenever I'm in a knot in life, I sit down, take some time off, and plan. I write down different bits that needs my attention. You'd be surprised as to how much weight is taken off when you write out and plan things. I believe every problem has a solution, and that solution comes within time. As long as you hang in there, you'll be fine over time. Trust me on that. Keep close to your family if you can, and use them for support. One thing I've learned is that since god wont help, people who really care about your well being, would!

    Something else that helps me during tough times are three simple words. When things seem bleak, or I'm about to do something new, I simply tell my self "I'll handle it." Repeat that to yourself instead of "Inshallah", you'd be surprised what a significant positive difference those words make.

    Call me TAP TAP! for I am THE ASS PATTER!
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #7 - May 02, 2009, 04:59 PM

    due to few unfortunate circumstances i am in desperate need of money,job,sometime for my self,an extension on my student visa, and chances for geting each one of these,in pure logical terms ,are bleak.
    for last few days i couldnt help but saying the words for example,if god willing(inshallah)or god is gracious.and when i say any of these words my friends look at me like i am an alien(because i claim to be an atheist)
    i think i miss god.or atleast there should be something on which you can rely on when nothing seems to work.
    what do you guys do in an hopeless situation?


    The same thing.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #8 - May 02, 2009, 05:20 PM

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?


    Your lack of belief in god?



    Its based on what? 


    The burden of proof is on the claimant, if someone wants to claim that God exists they must bring proof. No one has to disprove a negative.


    It's based on faith. God not not proven or unproven. Taking any position would be unreasonable when there is no evidence for it.   
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #9 - May 02, 2009, 05:29 PM

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?


    Your lack of belief in god?



    Its based on what? 


    The burden of proof is on the claimant, if someone wants to claim that God exists they must bring proof. No one has to disprove a negative.


    It's based on faith. God not not proven or unproven. Taking any position would be unreasonable when there is no evidence for it.   


    No, god is unproven until proven. everything is unproven until proven. the burden of proof is on the claimant. You can't say "God might exist", because there is no evidence to say that god might exist apart from in people's heads. Allegorical and hypothetical "evidence" does not count as proof because I can use an allegory for anything. The whole: "if god didnt create the universe, what did?" phrase is ridiculous yet it is the closest thing the nuts come to having proof of a god. Just because we can't fully explain something, doesn't mean we invent something to fill the gaps. You can do that to little children below the age of 6 but not an intelligent adult.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #10 - May 02, 2009, 06:40 PM

    due to few unfortunate circumstances i am in desperate need of money,job,sometime for my self,an extension on my student visa, and chances for geting each one of these,in pure logical terms ,are bleak.
    for last few days i couldnt help but saying the words for example,if god willing(inshallah)or god is gracious.and when i say any of these words my friends look at me like i am an alien(because i claim to be an atheist)
    i think i miss god.or atleast there should be something on which you can rely on when nothing seems to work.
    what do you guys do in an hopeless situation?


    hmm i miss god too sometimes.
    not just when things are bad either, but when something really good happens ... I got really used to thanking god. Now I'm not sure where to direct my gratefulness... luck? doesn't quite feel the same  Huh?

    "when you've got thousands of hadith/sunnah and a book like the Qur'an where abrogation is propagated by some; anyone with a grudge and some time on their hands can find something to confirm what ever they wish"- Kaiwai
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #11 - May 02, 2009, 08:04 PM

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?


    Your lack of belief in god?



    Its based on what? 


    The burden of proof is on the claimant, if someone wants to claim that God exists they must bring proof. No one has to disprove a negative.


    It's based on faith. God not not proven or unproven. Taking any position would be unreasonable when there is no evidence for it.  

    I have faith in the flying spaghetti monster, does that mean he may exist? Does it mean taking any other position apart from agnosticism is unreasonable?

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?


    Your lack of belief in god?



    Its based on what? 


    The burden of proof is on the claimant, if someone wants to claim that God exists they must bring proof. No one has to disprove a negative.


    It's based on faith. God not not proven or unproven. Taking any position would be unreasonable when there is no evidence for it.   


    No, god is unproven until proven. everything is unproven until proven. the burden of proof is on the claimant. You can't say "God might exist", because there is no evidence to say that god might exist apart from in people's heads. Allegorical and hypothetical "evidence" does not count as proof because I can use an allegory for anything. The whole: "if god didnt create the universe, what did?" phrase is ridiculous yet it is the closest thing the nuts come to having proof of a god. Just because we can't fully explain something, doesn't mean we invent something to fill the gaps. You can do that to little children below the age of 6 but not an intelligent adult.

    You can easily counter that by asking them who created god. They always get stuck on that one.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #12 - May 02, 2009, 08:16 PM

    Everytime I slip into a nostalgic missing of god, I remember that he's actually shown himself to be a narcissistic, sadistic jackass, if he even exists.

    Case in point:




    There's no salvation but in ourselves, each of us, all of us. There's nobody else out there looking out for us. It's all up to me, you and each and every human being to keep ourselves humble and honest and make meaning for ourselves.

    I do have an arsenal of audio books, videos, quotes and other quick picker-uppers that I keep around me to bring me back to a more relaxed attitude whenever I start slipping into depression and/or anxiety. My arsenal includes a lot of what may be considered "self help" like Eckhart Tolle, Osho, Alan Watts, Pema Chodron etc., but I don't let any one of these teachers or any one of their books become my entire mantra of existence.

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #13 - May 02, 2009, 08:26 PM

    Look within. Introspect, take responsibility for the outer circumstances, be brutally self-critical and intensely self-observant. Do everything in your power to pursue the three Greek transcendentals -- the Good, the True and the Beautiful.

    Don't be afraid to ask childlike questions, especially that most childlike and innocent question of all: "Why?"

    Face your fears. Open your heart. Contemplate on the possibility of unconditional love -- is such a thing possible at all? How can we humans embody it? Can we love rapists and murderers? Can we feel compassion toward them?

    Can cruelty be transformed into ecstasy? Can ignorance be transformed into wisdom?

    Only through such rigorous self-questioning and the cultivation of the capacity for willing self-sacrifice on the altar of high ideals can anything worthy of the name "God" be discovered.

    My two cents and attempted lived experience anyway. Wink
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #14 - May 02, 2009, 08:31 PM

    I do believe that positive thinking (feel good) is a pre-requisite for positive outcome.  It is good and beneficial to think positively. I always remember my friend who used to say she always find it easier to jog when she feels thin.

    A god(s) was/were always there to offer humans the service of a some general 'positive thinking. This is something even my staunchiest atheist friends do believe in.

    The issue was, while offering the service of 'positive thinking', the price the god demanded was often too high. The price she/he/it demanded was 'yourself'.

    In a way, I was content being a Catholic, in the West, it is like a big empty shell. you get born into it, you get baptized, you get an above average eduacation and when u die you get a nice funeral. All was fine until Rashna (Curses upon her little hands and small feet Smiley  demonstrated to me that in countries that did not 'grow up' with catholicism, are suffering heavily (aids) + high birth rates, as they did not build their 'catholic defences' up yet.

    "Ask the slave girl; she will tell you the truth.' So the Apostle called Burayra to ask her. Ali got up and gave her a violent beating first, saying, 'Tell the Apostle the truth.'"
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #15 - May 02, 2009, 08:49 PM

    Everytime I slip into a nostalgic missing of god, I remember that he's actually shown himself to be a narcissistic, sadistic jackass, if he even exists.

    I'm probably going to regret posting a reply to this as I find that conversations with most atheists on these topics seem to go nowhere, but here is another perspective. Bear with me for a bit as I'm going to use theistic language. Temporary suspension of disbelief is advised. Wink

    The problem of evil is a very serious problem if God is "extra-cosmic", i.e. completely separate from his creation.

    However, what if creation is the result of the willing self-limitation of a Divine Reality, i.e. if God is both transcendent and immanent (panentheism)? In that situation what you get is not a scenario in which a tyrant external God sits around doing nothing while inflicting suffering on his creatures, but a scenario in which the One existence limits itself in its own self-manifestation and self-evolution, takes on the appearance of this divided creation and seeks to rediscover itself and its original unity and harmony through each created being in a process of evolution. In short, according to this metaphysic, it is the Divine, behind the masks and appearances, that is bearing the evil and suffering of its creatures.

    The question is now a totally different one. The problem is not that God inflicts evil on his creation which is separate from his own being, but how, and more importantly WHY, the Divine Reality came to limit itself and impose cruelty, evil and suffering on ITSELF in an act of self-sacrifice. Cruelty to others is one thing but it is quite another for the sole Reality to apparently inflict pain willingly on itself with a view to rediscovering its original Oneness through its self-evolution.

    This is a vision of a self-creating, self-organizing, self-evolving universe. This idea is found in Indian, Greek, Egyptian, and many other philosophies.

    My aim was not to start an argument here but to show there have been some very interesting and out-of-the-box responses to the problem of evil by mystics.

    There is no doubt that there is immense suffering in the world, and planet earth certainly seems to be a center for such suffering (think of the cruelty in nature for instance ... how much animals suffer because they are tied to their biological instincts ... you can't expect a tiger to give up meat, now). But is there an eschatology or teleology here? Is there a point to the evolution of the universe? Can I find out why I suffer and whether my suffering has any ultimate purpose? Can my suffering be made a willing sacrifice (mirroring what might have been the original sacrifice of the Divine, the result of which was creation and you and I) and can it be transformed into the sheer delight of existence?

    From the Big Bang arose matter, from matter arose life, and from life arose mind. And from mind, what might arise? After man ... what? What singularities lie ahead?

    I might be wrong about many things, but to stop asking questions like these is death.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #16 - May 02, 2009, 10:48 PM

    You are and atheist. What makes you different from a theist?


    Your lack of belief in god?



    Its based on what? 


    The burden of proof is on the claimant, if someone wants to claim that God exists they must bring proof. No one has to disprove a negative.


    When you say the claimant, you mean the atheist, right? Smiley

    The unlived life is not worth examining.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #17 - May 02, 2009, 10:53 PM

    Obviously not.

    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #18 - May 02, 2009, 11:27 PM

    I'm just saying that it could still work if you assume the claimant is the atheist. Yes, I'm saying atheists are as bad as theists.

    The unlived life is not worth examining.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #19 - May 02, 2009, 11:34 PM

    Bleh. If the claim is that god exists then the claim should be supported. You don't have to assume that everything exists just because there is no evidence for it. Furthermore you don't have to automatically provide disproof of anything you've never heard of before when somebody makes it up and just dumps it in your lap. It's their claim. Not yours. They are the ones who need to support it.

    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #20 - May 02, 2009, 11:37 PM

    I'll give you an example.

    J4m3z, I believe there is an invisible dragon in my garage. If you don't believe me then you are claiming there is not an invisible dragon in my garage and you will have to support your claim.

    See how stupid it is?

    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #21 - May 02, 2009, 11:54 PM

    I'll give you an example.

    J4m3z, I believe there is an invisible dragon in my garage. If you don't believe me then you are claiming there is not an invisible dragon in my garage and you will have to support your claim.

    See how stupid it is?


    But I'm not going to say there isn't an invisible dragon in your garage, I'm going to say that I don't know. There is that option too, you know... it isn't just between whether you believe God exists or whether you believe God does not exist.

    The unlived life is not worth examining.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #22 - May 03, 2009, 12:10 AM

    Bleh. If the claim is that god exists then the claim should be supported. You don't have to assume that everything exists just because there is no evidence for it. Furthermore you don't have to automatically provide disproof of anything you've never heard of before when somebody makes it up and just dumps it in your lap. It's their claim. Not yours. They are the ones who need to support it.


    This argument works with religions... but not with the concept of God.  Before you do anything with that, you have to define what God actually is. 

    Religions claim to do that... but so do atheists in a less direct way.  If you're saying you demand 'proof' then you're also claiming that you know what that proof would look like if you saw it. 

    What God works through evolution?  What if it's not in God's interest to prevent babies innocent babies from dying?  What if God is completely different than anything organized has ever been able to offer up?  Then for all you know you could have been looking at proof of God this whole time, and not even realized it. 

    And contrary to popular belief, the evidence isn't 'overwhelmingly' on the atheists' side.  Arguing against Christianity, or Islam then yes... there's a load of stuff to work with.  But when it comes to simply a belief in God, atheists are on exactly the same philosophical footing as people who choose to believe in God.... and it will remain that way until it's defined what God is or isn't.



    Everytime I slip into a nostalgic missing of god, I remember that he's actually shown himself to be a narcissistic, sadistic jackass, if he even exists.

    I'm probably going to regret posting a reply to this as I find that conversations with most atheists on these topics seem to go nowhere, but here is another perspective. Bear with me for a bit as I'm going to use theistic language. Temporary suspension of disbelief is advised. Wink

    The problem of evil is a very serious problem if God is "extra-cosmic", i.e. completely separate from his creation.

    However, what if creation is the result of the willing self-limitation of a Divine Reality, i.e. if God is both transcendent and immanent (panentheism)? In that situation what you get is not a scenario in which a tyrant external God sits around doing nothing while inflicting suffering on his creatures, but a scenario in which the One existence limits itself in its own self-manifestation and self-evolution, takes on the appearance of this divided creation and seeks to rediscover itself and its original unity and harmony through each created being in a process of evolution. In short, according to this metaphysic, it is the Divine, behind the masks and appearances, that is bearing the evil and suffering of its creatures.

    The question is now a totally different one. The problem is not that God inflicts evil on his creation which is separate from his own being, but how, and more importantly WHY, the Divine Reality came to limit itself and impose cruelty, evil and suffering on ITSELF in an act of self-sacrifice. Cruelty to others is one thing but it is quite another for the sole Reality to apparently inflict pain willingly on itself with a view to rediscovering its original Oneness through its self-evolution.

    This is a vision of a self-creating, self-organizing, self-evolving universe. This idea is found in Indian, Greek, Egyptian, and many other philosophies.

    My aim was not to start an argument here but to show there have been some very interesting and out-of-the-box responses to the problem of evil by mystics.

    There is no doubt that there is immense suffering in the world, and planet earth certainly seems to be a center for such suffering (think of the cruelty in nature for instance ... how much animals suffer because they are tied to their biological instincts ... you can't expect a tiger to give up meat, now). But is there an eschatology or teleology here? Is there a point to the evolution of the universe? Can I find out why I suffer and whether my suffering has any ultimate purpose? Can my suffering be made a willing sacrifice (mirroring what might have been the original sacrifice of the Divine, the result of which was creation and you and I) and can it be transformed into the sheer delight of existence?

    From the Big Bang arose matter, from matter arose life, and from life arose mind. And from mind, what might arise? After man ... what? What singularities lie ahead?

    I might be wrong about many things, but to stop asking questions like these is death.


    Great post.
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #23 - May 03, 2009, 12:13 AM

    The usual way of phrasing it is to say that since there is no reason to believe that god exists then the default position is that for all practical purposes god does not exist, much like invisible dragons.

    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #24 - May 03, 2009, 12:23 AM

    Bleh. If the claim is that god exists then the claim should be supported. You don't have to assume that everything exists just because there is no evidence for it. Furthermore you don't have to automatically provide disproof of anything you've never heard of before when somebody makes it up and just dumps it in your lap. It's their claim. Not yours. They are the ones who need to support it.


    This argument works with religions... but not with the concept of God.  Before you do anything with that, you have to define what God actually is. 

    Religions claim to do that... but so do atheists in a less direct way.  If you're saying you demand 'proof' then you're also claiming that you know what that proof would look like if you saw it. 

    What God works through evolution?  What if it's not in God's interest to prevent babies innocent babies from dying?  What if God is completely different than anything organized has ever been able to offer up?  Then for all you know you could have been looking at proof of God this whole time, and not even realized it. 

    And contrary to popular belief, the evidence isn't 'overwhelmingly' on the atheists' side.  Arguing against Christianity, or Islam then yes... there's a load of stuff to work with.  But when it comes to simply a belief in God, atheists are on exactly the same philosophical footing as people who choose to believe in God.... and it will remain that way until it's defined what God is or isn't.

    The idea of a god or gods is an attribute of religions and they all make claims for their deities. Your point is spurious IMO.


    Quote
    Everytime I slip into a nostalgic missing of god, I remember that he's actually shown himself to be a narcissistic, sadistic jackass, if he even exists.

    I'm probably going to regret posting a reply to this as I find that conversations with most atheists on these topics seem to go nowhere, but here is another perspective. Bear with me for a bit as I'm going to use theistic language. Temporary suspension of disbelief is advised. Wink

    The problem of evil is a very serious problem if God is "extra-cosmic", i.e. completely separate from his creation.

    However, what if creation is the result of the willing self-limitation of a Divine Reality, i.e. if God is both transcendent and immanent (panentheism)? In that situation what you get is not a scenario in which a tyrant external God sits around doing nothing while inflicting suffering on his creatures, but a scenario in which the One existence limits itself in its own self-manifestation and self-evolution, takes on the appearance of this divided creation and seeks to rediscover itself and its original unity and harmony through each created being in a process of evolution. In short, according to this metaphysic, it is the Divine, behind the masks and appearances, that is bearing the evil and suffering of its creatures.

    The question is now a totally different one. The problem is not that God inflicts evil on his creation which is separate from his own being, but how, and more importantly WHY, the Divine Reality came to limit itself and impose cruelty, evil and suffering on ITSELF in an act of self-sacrifice. Cruelty to others is one thing but it is quite another for the sole Reality to apparently inflict pain willingly on itself with a view to rediscovering its original Oneness through its self-evolution.

    This is a vision of a self-creating, self-organizing, self-evolving universe. This idea is found in Indian, Greek, Egyptian, and many other philosophies.

    My aim was not to start an argument here but to show there have been some very interesting and out-of-the-box responses to the problem of evil by mystics.

    There is no doubt that there is immense suffering in the world, and planet earth certainly seems to be a center for such suffering (think of the cruelty in nature for instance ... how much animals suffer because they are tied to their biological instincts ... you can't expect a tiger to give up meat, now). But is there an eschatology or teleology here? Is there a point to the evolution of the universe? Can I find out why I suffer and whether my suffering has any ultimate purpose? Can my suffering be made a willing sacrifice (mirroring what might have been the original sacrifice of the Divine, the result of which was creation and you and I) and can it be transformed into the sheer delight of existence?

    From the Big Bang arose matter, from matter arose life, and from life arose mind. And from mind, what might arise? After man ... what? What singularities lie ahead?

    I might be wrong about many things, but to stop asking questions like these is death.


    Great post.

    What if there is no meaning? Let's face it: the only reason anyone craves "ultimate purpose" is because they are offended by the thought of their efforts being for nothing. It's pure egotism.

    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #25 - May 03, 2009, 01:21 AM

    The idea of a god or gods is an attribute of religions and they all make claims for their deities. Your point is spurious IMO.


    Because all religions have their gods, doesn't mean that any belief in God necessarily has anything to do with religion. 


    Quote
    What if there is no meaning? Let's face it: the only reason anyone craves "ultimate purpose" is because they are offended by the thought of their efforts being for nothing. It's pure egotism.


    Maybe there is no meaning, but to assume that's the truth of the matter - is to do exactly what a theistic believer is doing.  Faith, after all, is simply an assumption of the truth. 
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #26 - May 03, 2009, 01:29 AM

    The idea of a god or gods is an attribute of religions and they all make claims for their deities. Your point is spurious IMO.


    Because all religions have their gods, doesn't mean that any belief in God necessarily has anything to do with religion.

       banghead  Yes. It. Does.
    It may not be associated with any particular recognised or organised religion but it is still a religious belief. Calling it "spirituality" makes no difference as that is just semantics.


    Quote
    Quote
    What if there is no meaning? Let's face it: the only reason anyone craves "ultimate purpose" is because they are offended by the thought of their efforts being for nothing. It's pure egotism.


    Maybe there is no meaning, but to assume that's the truth of the matter - is to do exactly what a theistic believer is doing.  Faith, after all, is simply an assumption of the truth. 

    It's exactly the same point as the one about invisible dragons: if there is no evidence for something the default position is that it does not exist.

    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #27 - May 03, 2009, 01:34 AM

    I'm probably going to regret posting a reply to this as I find that conversations with most atheists on these topics seem to go nowhere, but here is another perspective.


    Ned, I hope you know by now that I am not your "typical" atheist, in fact, I take pride in the fact that I am not a typical anything. Smiley

    But I know what you meant. I've witnessed atheism become a dogma in and of itself for some people, and I am by no means a dogmatic atheist (or at least I don't intend to be). Atheism is for me, a *starting* point for a deeper understanding of the world, not an end point.

    The reality is that in the real world as it is today, theists are causing way more problems than atheists and part of why I call myself an atheist (a recent development in my personal mythology I might add) is specifically to stand in solidarity with those who are actively working to dilute the overwhelming power that theism has amassed due to generations of institutionalized dogmatic teachings.

    The problem of evil is a very serious problem if God is "extra-cosmic", i.e. completely separate from his creation.


    Before I go further, I'd like to point out the simple fact, which I know you must already understand, that the "extra-cosmic" GOD *IS* the god of monotheism and most religions in general.

    However, what if creation is the result of the willing self-limitation of a Divine Reality, i.e. if God is both transcendent and immanent (panentheism)? In that situation what you get is not a scenario in which a tyrant external God sits around doing nothing while inflicting suffering on his creatures, but a scenario in which the One existence limits itself in its own self-manifestation and self-evolution, takes on the appearance of this divided creation and seeks to rediscover itself and its original unity and harmony through each created being in a process of evolution. In short, according to this metaphysic, it is the Divine, behind the masks and appearances, that is bearing the evil and suffering of its creatures.


    This is all great, as someone with pantheistic leanings (*not* panentheistic), I understand what you are saying completely. What you call "Divine Reality" I call Consciousness which is the very being inside me that is gives "me" a sense of cohesiveness day after day even though no cell in my body is the same as it was 10 years ago. This Consciousness is what, I find, is common in things like Art, Sex, Music... expressions of a shared consciousness that some talented beings are able to put into mortal terms for our ego-based reality within which our consciousness manifests.

    The question is now a totally different one. The problem is not that God inflicts evil on his creation which is separate from his own being, but how, and more importantly WHY, the Divine Reality came to limit itself and impose cruelty, evil and suffering on ITSELF in an act of self-sacrifice. Cruelty to others is one thing but it is quite another for the sole Reality to apparently inflict pain willingly on itself with a view to rediscovering its original Oneness through its self-evolution.


    That is the limit of pantheism and panentheism because no sentient being would willingly hurt itself. The whole concept of "sacrifice" or "self sacrifice" is really not my cup of tea as I have seen what happens when sacrifice becomes glorified as a concept in and of itself (e.g. the worship of sacrifice among Shias, Catholics, etc.)

    This is a vision of a self-creating, self-organizing, self-evolving universe. This idea is found in Indian, Greek, Egyptian, and many other philosophies.


    Having studied pagan cultures of Europe (Celtic, Norse, Greek, Roman, Etruscan, etc), Asia (Buddhist, Hindu, Zoroastrian etc), Africa (Egyptian, among other tribal faiths), and America (Shamanic, Native, Aboriginal, Mayan, Peruvian), I absolutely see the point of relating human experience to the natural scheme of the universe. The ancient paths all did speak of universal reality as a living, self organizing entity of which we are all part (worship of Natural elements, witchcraft, etc. were part of these spiritual traditions).

    My aim was not to start an argument here but to show there have been some very interesting and out-of-the-box responses to the problem of evil by mystics.


    Yes, we can sit and pontificate on the consciousness of nebulae and the orgasms of event horizons, but the truth is that god-based, anthropomorphic, for the most part MONOtheistic religion has wreaked horrors on countless humans and is still doing that right now. The idea of a god-entity sitting somewhere outside of our reality is not comforting to people whose brains have been molded by monotheism and theism in general to *want* a parental figure to come and *save* them from the harsh realities of life.

    I personally do not believe in the dualistic notions "good" and "evil" in the way that religion (any religion) would have me believe. I *choose* to find my own truth beyond the grasp of any one religious or non-religious dogma.

    The bottom line though is that most humans are not looking for a neutral, passive force that keeps atoms together to be "god". Most humans are looking to A GOD to come and give them answers... human answers. That is what is wrong with religion. It hijacks our innate sense of "spirituality" or consciousness and tries to elevate the human being as the most superior of all the universe's creation and worthy and deserving of eternal life. I simply do not believe that humans are all that special, frankly, and our religions are just proof of that.

    There is no doubt that there is immense suffering in the world, and planet earth certainly seems to be a center for such suffering (think of the cruelty in nature for instance ... how much animals suffer because they are tied to their biological instincts ... you can't expect a tiger to give up meat, now). But is there an eschatology or teleology here? Is there a point to the evolution of the universe?


    Have you considered the very real possibility that there is NO point at all? That's the place I begin from. I give it a point, I ascribe meaning to my life. Just like to a hardcore Muslim, the meaning of life IS to follow Islam. That IS his meaning of life not because there is a meaning to life but because he *chose* to believe that. To a Buddhist the meaning of life is to follow in the footsteps of Buddha (to ultimately attain enlightenment, but never in this life).

    To *want* to see a "point" to the evolution of the universe is to ascribe anthopomorphic attributes to the entire universe.

    Can I find out why I suffer and whether my suffering has any ultimate purpose? Can my suffering be made a willing sacrifice (mirroring what might have been the original sacrifice of the Divine, the result of which was creation and you and I) and can it be transformed into the sheer delight of existence?


    I do believe in delighting in all forms. Smiley I don't like labels, but if I had to I'd say I'm more of an Existentialist-Hedonist than a cut and dry "atheist", if that can even be defined.

    From the Big Bang arose matter, from matter arose life, and from life arose mind. And from mind, what might arise? After man ... what? What singularities lie ahead?


    Good questions. It's important to remember that we are after all human and that we will never, ever understand everything. I find a humble delight in knowing that I can look forever and never run out of new things to learn, discover, explore.

    I might be wrong about many things, but to stop asking questions like these is death.


    Never ever stop questioning. Smiley It's one of the very few worthwhile reasons to enjoy being part of humanity.

     far away hug

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #28 - May 03, 2009, 02:03 AM

    I hope this doesnt sound sarcastic, because I mean it
    If you miss god.....make up a new one.
    Why not? You will find him to be twice as helpful in hopeless situations, and he wont berate you as much.

    and as far as hopeless situations go, situations are only as hopeless as you are. Its only hopeless when you quit!  Afro


    Here is an inspirational 80s song to help you

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vTgtxrxag0



    Mr. Miyagi is all the prophet you'll need
    Put that in your ipod, and listen full blast, if you aint up kicking life in the balls in no time, I'm out of ideas  Afro

    The foundation of superstition is ignorance, the
    superstructure is faith and the dome is a vain hope. Superstition
    is the child of ignorance and the mother of misery.
    -Robert G. Ingersoll (1898)

     "Do time ninjas have this ability?" "Yeah. Only they stay silent and aren't douchebags."  -Ibl
  • Re: i miss god
     Reply #29 - May 03, 2009, 03:06 AM

    The idea of a god or gods is an attribute of religions and they all make claims for their deities. Your point is spurious IMO.


    Because all religions have their gods, doesn't mean that any belief in God necessarily has anything to do with religion.

       banghead  Yes. It. Does.
    It may not be associated with any particular recognised or organised religion but it is still a religious belief. Calling it "spirituality" makes no difference as that is just semantics.


    Even if you define 'religion' simply as 'any belief in the divine whatsoever', minus anything to do with organized doctrine etc.  your assertion that all religions 'make claims for their gods' falls short.  I choose to believe in God (whatever that is) - and I make no claims about God.  So where do I fit?

    Your point about the dragon in the garage - an atheist is asserting 'no... there's nothing in that garage'.  I'm saying we have no idea what's in the garage. 

    That analogy is pretty limited, because a garage is just a building that sits there and does nothing.  But we live in a universe, that we know very little about, and does all sorts of things. 

    Another limitation of that analogy, we know what dragon is supposed to be more or less.  We can ask for proof like dragon poo or a photo of him sitting in your car.  We can ask the same about religions - who supposedly know what and who God is.  But you can't ask for proof about something if you don't even know what God is really like. 



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    What if there is no meaning? Let's face it: the only reason anyone craves "ultimate purpose" is because they are offended by the thought of their efforts being for nothing. It's pure egotism.


    Maybe there is no meaning, but to assume that's the truth of the matter - is to do exactly what a theistic believer is doing.  Faith, after all, is simply an assumption of the truth. 

    It's exactly the same point as the one about invisible dragons: if there is no evidence for something the default position is that it does not exist.
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    For me, (and science in general), the default position is not to say 'it doesn't exist'.  It's to say simply "there's no evidence for that".  To assume that 'it doesn't exist' would be bad science.  We don't even know what it is we're supposed to be testing for, or what kind of evidence we're supposed to be looking for.  We have nothing defined. 


    The moment someone says "God is a guy with a white beard sitting on a cloud" - then we can start doing all that stuff. 
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