Because - as I say - ex-Muslims have an image problem and are being lumped with such bigots by most people.
I think you'll find that no matter how much you try to remove the islamaphobe bigotry label from the ex muslim cause, you will still get called a bigot. Why? quite simple really, islam does not like to be criticised, they have PCism on thier side, and anything you say, no matter how politely phrased will still eventually earn you that label.
Do YOU think that the actual organisation of the council of ex muslims (not this forum) is Islamaphobic? has maryam ever come across as badly spoken or a bigot in your eyes?
Because to others the organisation is seen as islamaphobic and bigotted.
As I said, I believe that this forum serves not only to show ex muslims the way, but also to show everyone else that there is a middle way to approach it, and for all you know seeing that could be a change of the way they view things to some people.
And IF the member you are hounding away does turn out to be an actual fully blown inbred bigot then they will be dealt with, just give a new member a chance to show his her true colours before you come thundering down with your righteous rage and fury....k?