^I could easily find someone who is a willing participant. Because most men are easily aroused.
I don't know about this. This is perpetuated by the media and TV/hollywood but I don't agree with this. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but if a random attractive girl stops me in the street and asks if I would have sex with her (like in that youtube video), I'd decline.
Seriously though, there's nothing to worry about. Sadly it's not uncommon with muslim kids. Girls aren't magical creatures, just normal human beings.
And on the other side of the coin, men aren't sex crazed demons, just normal beings.
Individual experiences rule the day in the end I suppose.
back on topic, what was the topic? oh yeah.
The only haram thing that I didn't do as a muslim besides drugs was pork and I've done that when the opportunity presented itself (when traveling to more civilized corners of the world). I'd experiment with drugs if they weren't as expensive around here, not to mention the harsh law sentences.