Hi everyone. I am a 31yo female who was brought up a non-practising catholic. my parents taught me to say please and thank you and respect the differences in other people i.e. not to laugh at or point at disabled people etc. so they basically instilled manners and thought for others.
I grew up feeling isolated from my peers and like I didn't belong anywhere and thought at 20 joining the nuns could be the answer. I was supposed to meet up with a nun and talk but she didn't contact me (thankfully lol) and I felt rejected for a while but not for long.
I had an awareness of Islam which was mentioned very briefly in RE classes at school and remembered my parents saying they treat women like shit (not wishing to offend anyone, I am just relating their attitude).
Anyway after being encouraged to develop my spirituality via my 12 step group and discovering the Islam Channel on Sky I became fascinated by the channel last year and would watch question and answer show every day til I got sick of it and stopped for a few months.
I am glad I didn't rush headlong into converting although I did google how to go about it, I am the kinda person liable to make hasty decisions which I later regret. After watching IslamiQA and City Sisters I was struck by how ridiculous the rules and regulations are e.g. women aren't allowed to have their eyebrows waxed, praying five times a day at specific times, possibly having to learn Arabic to read the arabic version of Quran, hijab for women and girls, it's a lot to ask and a big commitment.
I bought a copy of the Quran a couple months ago in a local charity shop and read bits from it. Kinda hard to understand, a bit like the old testament in the christian bible.
I could not commit to a religion (or is it culture, I am not sure?) that arranges marriages, carries out "honour killings" to save face in their community and has so many dos and don'ts that they can't agree among themselves what they are.
I read "Shame" by Jasvinder sanghera (sp) a couple of years ago and was sickened and saddened. I admire anybody brave enough to leave behind their friends and families forever in a bid for basic freedom.
I found this site the other day when reading a link posted on the spectator. I'd googled about british women converting to islam. i've read quite a few posts and it's good to know there is a safe haven for anybody having doubts or has left islam.
I decided against embracing the catholic church too. The paedophilia and cover ups sickens me. I have a God of my own understanding and I am happy to consider myself a spiritual person rather than religious.
I would like to wish everyone here on this site all the best and hope that you'll find peace of mind some day.