Hi there, I'm a new member but anyways here is my opinion on Western Muslims.
Now in the West, Muslims have a load more Freedom then they do in the East etc. What this enables them to do is be free although many have religious parents who will tell them kids, don't get girlfriends etc. Now these kids read at home and be kind and respectful but going to school I have seen even the most religious of the muslim do the most outragous stuff. They talk about girls, secretly date, fight, swear, listen to music, make themselves look pretty, even take of there hijab. I however had a good friend who is really quite smart and I start looking into Islam more etc. But anyways back to the point, I believe that many of these are Haraam, even if they pray 5 times a day many of them have seen Naugthy videos etc. Some however are religious and put a bad picture on the normal non religious kids who now look as if they support Extreme Islam etc. I must admit now that my mother is not at the best of conditions my respect for god has gone to an All time low and I have even challenged my mum to syaing whether god exists or not. Surprisingly she was willing to listen but said that god will help her, my mum is religious etc, she looks after 5 kids and I think to myself why does she deserves this. My other point is that I also don't like many Islamic countries, although I do like Ahmadijanidine lifestyle and that's about it. Many Arab women are beautiful and if they had a right to remove there headscarves of I think they would be one of the most beautiful.
Thanks for reading if something doesnt make sense then asks me and I'll try to re-write it, I am tired so yeah.
1. Depending on the age range you are talking about it could be typical rebellion against parents, society, religion, etc.
2. With taboos which are openly expressed by non-believers there is an appeal to the freedom which is otherwise restricted. People will also question if the taboo is no more than an old tradition which has no place in the modern world. The tradition could be based on an outdated interpretation as well just as with the dress code. The tradition could be culture not religious as well.