Wait, what?
Who on earth is telling you not to talk about sex? don;t you think the 'muslim' comparison is over the top?
Sorry, that was a wrong comparison to make, it took me to realize that after posting it.
Is that the context you are using it in?
Because this is the conext I am using it under:
sleazy - morally degraded; "a seedy district"; "the seamy side of life"; "sleazy characters hanging around casinos"; "sleazy storefronts with...dirt on the walls"- Seattle Weekly; "the sordid details of his orgies stank under his very nostrils"- James Joyce; "the squalid atmosphere of intrigue and betrayal"
^^ for me sleazy is when all that is cared about is shadier part of sexual interaction.
If a guy is sleazy in my eyes, its because all he does is objectify women he sees, even when the context is quite lecherous. So for instance a man posting a pic of someone who only just hit puberty, or is clearly still in puberty with the comment like "mmm, milk does the body good"..........that is sleazy.
Or if every single female he posts about is accompanied with "I would give her my dick" "I would bang her so hard"
That's when you finally see the sexual ethics behind the person.
There is nothing wrong with sex, nothing wrong with talking about it, nothing wrong with joking about it, nothing wrong with fucking talking about the chicks you want to slip your dick into, but as with all things, MODERATION is better.
Which is rich coming from me, I know I know, doesn't mean I don't see that it is wrong sometimes. And I don't generally post pics of guys and talk about them as pieces of meat that I would 'give my dick too'.
I do it sometimes (or at least I think I do....consider this my disclaimer against someone saying but berbs look at what you said) but at the level it happens on chat towards females? lol no way. That's when it gets sleazy.
Understood sis, just wanted to clear things up
I understand how insecure some women can be when they feel objectified even if its not them but the celebrities and i tend to forget about that sometimes especially online too. I must confess regarding the penis thread, i was bit uncomfortable too before i posted mine so i can kind of relate to that too. That experience does make me put myself into female's shoes.
So my apologies to anyone(especially Aphrodite) that feel offended for my remarks that is deemed as sleazy or sexist, i never intended to act like one
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