I'm a guy but I will just quote BerberElla from her blog:
I won't ever mess around with an ex muslim man again, know why?
Because whilst they may have seperated from Islam mentally, in many other ways they have not seperated completely.
Take HO and Shahid Raza for instance (no offence guys) who are looking solely for a woman that they can successfully pass off to their parents. The woman must be the same race/cultural background as them, not only that but I highly doubt either of them could take a woman who had visible tattoos home because ultimately this would gain disapproval from their controllers (parents) which sadly neither one is ready to face, if indeed (and I doubt it) they are ever capable of such a bold move.
So if you're that type of guy , please don't date an Ex-Muslim girl and waste her time (same goes for ex-muslim girls dating ex-muslim guys)!
Speaking from a guys perspective, an Ex-Muslim woman is the last person I'd ever date. Mainly because it's hard to find one, and there are so many other options.