Oddly enough, as a woman who absolutely does not want kids, I also found my choice of potential partners dwindle. I think it was sheer luck that I bumped into my hubby who detests kids as much as I
but pretty much every guy I had been with before that either wanted kids, or didn't want to give up the possibility of having them in the future. It was a depressing worry that I wouldn't be able to find someone like me.
But child-free women do
exist so don't give up hope! I guess it depends on where you live though and whether you have enough freedom to look for a partner of your choice.
Unfortunately I had 3 before I realised that I didn't want any, but soon enough they will grow and leave and this job can be over.
You know what pisses me off though, is dudes who date me knowin full well at the get go that I don't want to ever have any children again, but then try to use my desire to not have children, as a reason why it won't work between us.
That is what pisses me off.
My real mum for instance had no choice but to have her womb removed because she was bleeding profusely after having my sister. Later on in life she met someone, and they were together for 13 yrs. It was after 13 years that this dude broke up with her because the urge to finally have children was upon him.
I don't trust any man who says he is ok with me not wanting to have kids, it's all a tactic to get pussy. Ultimately people are just fucking liars.
Anyway I fully intend to get sterilised this year, so the choice is forever gone.