I don't know if this has been done, I am sure it has, but I am too lazy to search it out so lets mork and mindy, fresh prince, and friends it for awhile.....as in lets have a rerun.
I want to feel cheered by some positive moments, so share yours.
The day my middle child was born (was too out of it during the 1st and too depressed during the 3rd). I felt such a rush of love for him when I first held him in my arms. It had been quite emotional, he was born not breathing so naturally I was crying and afraid, but then they cleared his lungs and he cried and I held him.
You think its not magical but it is, I don't love often because it hurts in the end, but my love for him was so intense at that moment. I was so happy to hold him and have him.
Not really one single memory, but those collective moments in which you are appreciated by your friends. It matters to me that my real friends love me, and I work hard to be a good friend. I love my friends too. So when they show that appreciation back, well it makes me happy. It makes me flush.
I have 3 close friends who describe me as the best friend they have ever had, and yea, I feel warm and fuzzy inside because I am loved by some. Something I too often forget when I am down or looking for love in the wrong places, forgetting the people who love me already. These moments make me feel goooooooood.
That time my father was proud of me because I lectured him on his islamically innapropriate behaviour, and he felt pride because I was religious. I don't feel warm and fuzzy from the belief I had then, but he was proud of me for a moment in time and that felt good. Just that moment. I could rip it apart in a heartbeat now, turn it into a bad memory for what it represents. There are many good memories I won't share because they hurt, but I won't do that with this one.
It always made me feel good to have my father feel pride. LOL as the black sheep of the family, that ain't ever happening again.
My first orgasm.
I was 19, so it was a long wait lol although the one time I almost had one I panicked and stopped having sex because it felt like a dream I had had once at 15 (I think I came in my sleep at 15). Anyway, so 1st time it almost happened and freaked and was like get the fuck off me, and didn;t let it happen.
But this guy, man was he good in bed, refused to let me move from the bed, and bob is your uncle I got my first orgasm. I lay there spaced out and smiling for ages after hahaha. Seriously best moment ever.
Orgasms have been better since no doubt, but that 1st one holds a special place in my heart for how stupid my grin was after.
Ok, you guys share. Uplift this house, what moments still make you smile and feel warm inside?