I don't think my friend is open minded enough to be here.
Hi A-Lie greetings and good wishes to you and your friend., that is O.k., your friend need not be an open minded. As long as you are here and put forward critical questions to her , you and your friend will be all right and she will have more respect towards you because of your independent stand.
well basically apostasy does not mean death unless the person is harming muslims
That is true ., but what is harming Muslims
Is it not questioning Islam/Quran/Prophet of Islam means Harming Muslims??
and every bad point seems to have some contect or historical reference... like the killing of jews and christians apparently for first 7 years while quran was being revealed it said not to harm them but things were getting out of hand so god revealed passages saying to kill them disbelievers but only if they harm muslims..
. That is NOT true. First 7 years of Islam, Prophet and his followers never hurt any one., In fact I can say that History of Islam tells me that first 10years of Islam, Prophet and his followers did NOT hurt anyone., off course there were hardly couple of 100 followers during that time.
No..No Do NOT RUSH TO ANY DECISION
it's just she seems to have an answer for everything. i hope I haven't rushed this decision i thought
i took a long time making. I look forward to replies
., keep open mind. if there is something you think is good in Islam, then there is NOTHING wrong keeping it and following it..