This is just one of the many absurdities in Islam,- upon seeing your kafir friends going to hell there are basically three options:
1) Allah will let you forget about your beloved one's being bbq'ed in Hell. Result: You become a brainwashed, arrogant cunt of a zombie.
2) You grieve each single day in heaven about your dear ones. Result: That can't possibly be heaven.
3) After all, Allah only included those terrorizing verses in the Quran to scare people,- once you come to dar'ul-akhirat you see that there is no such torture as hell. Result: Allah is a petty lying Deity, keen on using blackmail.