Mari urdu ithni achi nahi hai, but may try karu ga...
Mara bhaio tum ko malum hona chayah aap ki desi bewii both controling and abusive ho sakthi hai, whoh tum ko abuse karsakti hai, isi layiah (if) tum England mai rah pah choko ho tu tumaray liyah aak helpline hai, jo specialize karthai male domestic voliance mai unkah website yah hai:http://www.mensadviceline.org.uk/mens_advice.phphttp://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/crime/domestic-violence-rule/
My urdu is not great, but I will try my best.
My brothers you should know that your Asian wife could be very controlling and abusive, and she can abuse you, for this reason if you live in England there is a helpline/website for males who suffer abuse from the wifem and the link is:http://www.mensadviceline.org.uk/mens_advice.php
*Although the home office talks about female abuse, remember the law is same for both males and females, so use the law to your advantage* (Don't let those desi abusive bitches win!)http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/crime/domestic-violence-rule/
It's all too often I see, some Desi males who come from Pakistan married to a typical desi British girl and she treats him like shit, and threatens to send him back... but there is actually a website dedicated to helping those who are in domestic abuse. Woman are not the only folk who suffer from domestic abuse.