Hmm....interesting.
Dont you feel that even the bad experiences you had in your life helped to make you who you are? You might be a totally different person, no?
I don't see that as a bad thing.
I've always had this sort of humour, these sort of interests, been empathic with people etc etc. All the parts I value of me mostly I have always had. Maybe I have better insight, but in order to gain that insight I have to become partly a person I'm not all that pleased with.
I have issues man, so I'm not sure that old idiom of pain being useful because it makes you who you are, doesn't bring me comfort.
The bad experiences helped shape me into a person who doesn't trust anyone, has no confidence in herself, and keeps everyone at arms length, or runs if they slip through the net.
Not really a good trade.
