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  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #210 - June 13, 2010, 11:47 PM

    How could they be racist against you, Mr. X? You don't even have a face.

    fuck you
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #211 - June 14, 2010, 12:25 AM

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    majority of humans are tribal savages at the core.


    And that's the hideous truth of it. Whether it's Brahmins versus Sudras versus Dalits, the bourgeoisie versus the working class verses the underclass, Aussies versus immigrants or Muslims versus the kuffar any identity I choose whether singular or hyphenated is still putrescent, still revoltingly human.

    The language of the mob was only the language of public opinion cleansed of hypocrisy and restraint - Hannah Arendt.
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #212 - June 14, 2010, 01:37 AM

    Sorry mate. You said that The System was "societal attitudes + official policies"

    So you don't believe that there are any official policies at play here?

    I don't understand why you repeat the question. Like I said, there are no discriminatory official policies. None. But there discriminatory and alienating societal attitudes. So overall, the system has its flaws.


    I don't know why you think that I'm reluctant to state that mate. Racism is self-evidently an invidious thing. I've said that on this thread. And to be honest, its kind of such a no-brainer, isn't it?

    I was not asking you if you thought racism was bad. I was asking if you think racial discrimination in this day and age still alienates and excludes people. Sorry if I wasn't clear.


    You see, the corollary of this is something quite interesting. It can actually minimise individual experience of discrimination and prejudice and downplays achievement in society. I don't believe, for example, that a British Indian Sikh lad faces at points of his life quantifiably less visceral discrimination and ‘alienation’ than anyone else in society. Amongst those who are prejudiced, Indians are quintessential ‘Pakis’.

    Here is another thing. Boys of Jamaican / West Indian descent have had low levels of school achievement compared to other ethnic groups. Now you could say that this is due to discrimination and other factors causing alienation. That seems very simple and straightforward. However another factor comes into play. It turns out that black boys of African descent in Britain actually have relatively good levels of achievement in school exams. Is it really tenable to suggest that a London boy with Nigerian parents faces less discrimination or racism (if these are things they face) than a London boy with Jamaican parents? Why is there a differential amongst young black males when it comes to this issue that aligns broadly and roughly with parental origin? What are the levels of discrimination and alienation at play here? It is simply not credible to say that a British West Indian lad faces more ‘alienation’ than a British Nigerian lad might.

    Quite right. Same thing can be said about Asian and Jewish Americans. They have exceeded every other group in educational achievement (including WASPs/White Protestants). Jews make up almost a third of the student body at many Ivy League Unis (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Jews#Education). And, as in your example, it is laughable to suggest that Jews and Asians in American face less discrimination than White Protestants.
    However, IMHO, a 3rd factor comes here (i.e it's neither 1 nor 2). The factor is that these communities have cultures and parental/communal attitudes that focus on educational achievement (educationally-orientated).

    I still stand by my point which is that different ethnic and religious groups face different levels of discrimination. I also believe that the difference in the level of discrimination can and probably does affect the economic and education success of certain minorities.




    @HO, thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts. I don't disagree with any of what you said. I wrote my long post as a response to a post by @li that really irritated me. He said that doesn't believe a non-White guy with an Australian accent would be asked "where are you from". My cousins not only have thick Northern English accents but they are also non-Muslim British-born White kids yet they were asked this question repeatedly (not to mention the abuse and racism).
    And thanks for your words. The girl has just finished her Masters and has a second-round interview for a job at the marketing division at one of M&S's head offices and the boy is studying law. So they are successful despite the racism they faced.  




    @abdalwali, wow my cousins should be thankful for what the experiences. Glad everything worked out for you.  far away hug




    I don't have any real friends tbh - lost most of them after the apostasy. But as far as aquaintances go, I'd say 1/4 are white, rest are a mix of my old desi friends and also chinese friends. After I apostasised I was really naive about canadian society and thought I'd be totally accepted and make new friends as long as I drop the religious baggage.

    Interesting.
    But from my limited knowledge Alberta is not representative of Canada in terms of prevalence of racism. Your thoughts??


  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #213 - June 14, 2010, 03:42 AM

    But from my limited knowledge Alberta is not representative of Canada in terms of prevalence of racism. Your thoughts??


    Alberta is a lot more representative than you'd think. People abroad tend to have a very skewed view of Canada due to the propaganda the liberal elite here pump out. A vast majority of Canada is pretty redneck. Only the toronto, vancouver and montreal areas are truly liberal. The thing is Canada's ruling political, business and media elite are very different from the rank and file.

    Iblis has mad debaterin' skillz. Best not step up unless you're prepared to recieve da pain.

  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #214 - June 14, 2010, 03:49 AM

    Reading your refined sophisticated posts while looking at your avatar, caption, and sig makes me  Cheesy 
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #215 - June 14, 2010, 06:17 AM

     Cheesy

    i can powst lyk dis i it makez u camfortable  Smiley

    Iblis has mad debaterin' skillz. Best not step up unless you're prepared to recieve da pain.

  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #216 - June 14, 2010, 08:15 AM

    That's very true. People always want to segregate and exclude. Even before us ethnics arrived there was a divide between Catholics ("Micks") and Protestants in Australia. I remember in the late 80s/early 90s there were skinheads all over the show, Chinese were being spat at. I was called nigger, coon and boong every day in school by students, in class with teachers doing nothing about it. They sympathised with the racists. Kids used to have swastikas on their schoolbags and hand around National Action literature. One boy wore the (apartheid) South African flag on his uniform. I was thrown in a rubbish bin too, had dog shit smeared on me, told that when I was born I fell in a bucket of shit that's why I'm black. The white students used to call each other "immigrant" as a term of abuse. A decade of that fucked me big time. Any my integration-mad parents not teaching me my culture and urging me to look past it and succeed and be an Aussie when I'm just a "nigger" in the only language I speak.

    Disgusting, I cant believe all that happened in Australia on a regular basis  finmad

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  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #217 - June 14, 2010, 08:25 AM

    Sure didn't happen everywhere. If they'd tried that at the schools I went to in the 70's they would have had the book thrown at them.

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  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #218 - June 14, 2010, 08:39 AM

    Sure didn't happen everywhere. If they'd tried that at the schools I went to in the 70's they would have had the book thrown at them.

    Do you think Australia has become a lot more racist since the 70s then?

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  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #219 - June 14, 2010, 09:55 AM

    I don't understand why you repeat the question.



    Because you stated your definition as being societal attitude and official policy. If that is what 'The System' is, I wanted to give you an opportunity to state what you thought the official discriminatory policies are.

    Here is a suggestion - 'The System' in Britain is auto-correcting, introspective and self-reflexive. Societal attitudes are reformed, corrected and ameliorated through public policy, social change, and civil society.



    I was not asking you if you thought racism was bad. I was asking if you think racial discrimination in this day and age still alienates and excludes people. Sorry if I wasn't clear.


    The key word I used was 'invidious', so I thought its obvious what I said. This is a no-brainer.



    And, as in your example, it is laughable to suggest that Jews and Asians in American face less discrimination than White Protestants.



    This doesn't make any sense. I fear your laugh was wasted. I didn't say or suggest any such thing. This is just strange.



    I still stand by my point which is that different ethnic and religious groups face different levels of discrimination. I also believe that the difference in the level of discrimination can and probably does affect the economic and education success of certain minorities.



    Yes, I understand that is what you think. I don't entirely agree. I think there are internal structural reasons that account in large part for these differentials. You just suggested yourself in your post what some of these might be. Nevertheless, it is often comforting when competing in the Olympic games of discrimination to win the gold medal. It is tempting because it allows those who advocated for that to absolve the winners of personal responsibility, and always blame others. That can be a dangerous game though, because it doesn't address issues that need to be addressed about internal impediments to progression. That way lies stasis.



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  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #220 - June 14, 2010, 11:07 AM

    Muhammad would win in Olympic games of discrimination akhi. No other person before or after him has been as discriminated.
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #221 - June 14, 2010, 02:51 PM

    Because you stated your definition as being societal attitude and official policy. If that is what 'The System' is, I wanted to give you an opportunity to state what you thought the official discriminatory policies are.

    I said there are none and you repeated the question.

    Here:
    Can you elaborate on some of the official policies in Britain that you think are responsible for this?

    There are none. I thought we already established that.


    Anyway, let me state it once more, I don't think there any official policies are discriminatory. None whatsoever. In fact it's the opposite. There area anti-discrimination laws.
    But there are discriminatory societal attitudes that hold people back. It's still there. This doesn't mean the UK is worse than other countries or that it hasn't made any progress. On the contrary.


    Here is a suggestion - 'The System' in Britain is auto-correcting, introspective and self-reflexive. Societal attitudes are reformed, corrected and ameliorated through public policy, social change, and civil society.

    I would agree with that.


    This doesn't make any sense. I fear your laugh was wasted. I didn't say or suggest any such thing. This is just strange.

    You said Black Brits of African origin are more educationally successful than Black Brits of Caribbean origin even though it's reasonable presume they both face the same level of discrimination from society (if any).
    I agreed with you and mentioned another example of Jewish ad Aisan Americans who have even exceeded White Protestants in educational achievement even tough it's reasonable to presume they face more discrimination than White Protestants.

    Why does that not make sense?

    Oh and I wasn't laughing at you. I was agreeing with you !



    Yes, I understand that is what you think. I don't entirely agree. I think there are internal structural reasons that account in large part for these differentials. You just suggested yourself in your post what some of these might be. Nevertheless, it is often comforting when competing in the Olympic games of discrimination to win the gold medal. It is tempting because it allows those who advocated for that to absolve the winners of personal responsibility, and always blame others. That can be a dangerous game though, because it doesn't address issues that need to be addressed about internal impediments to progression. That way lies stasis.

    Like you, I'm not interested in a discrimination Olympics.
    I'm only interested in diagnosing and acknowledging social ills. The fact that some ethnic and religious minorities excel and exceed others doesn't change the fact that racism still holds people back, some more than others.

    For example, studies indicate that Jewish and Asian Americans are outdoing White Christians educationally while Blacks and in Hispanics are lagging behind.
    I don't think it's fair to point out the success of Asian and Jewish Americans to play down the racism that Blacks and Hispanics face. And although I think there problems within the Black community that are partly responsible for this lag, I do think that Blacks face more racism and discrimination than Asians or Jews and that that too is a contributing factor.

    Same thing can be said about the Indian and Pakistani communities in the UK. There are problems within the Pakistani communities that are responsible for higher level of unemployment and the lag in educational achievement (in comparison to the Indian community). Such problems include endogamy, isolation, high levels of social conservatism, and religiosity. But at the same time, I think Pakistanis face more discrimination than Indians and that that too is a contributing factor.

    Now I can't say which factor is more responsible, the higher level of discrimination or the "self-inflicted" intra-comunity problems (so to speak). But I'm inclined to think it's more the latter.


  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #222 - June 14, 2010, 03:41 PM


    Iraqi Atheist

    It made me really angry and sad to read what your uncle has been subjected to, if anybody´has been an exemplary immigrant it is your uncle and the same goes for what happened to your cousins when they were children.

    However, I have some comments to some of the examples you listed :

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    And even the good friends and teachers always asked her "where are you from" even though she is a British-born White girl named Sarah who speaks with a think northern English accent. All because of the surname. Remember, not "where is you family from?" but "where are you from?". Big difference.


    I don´t see what is so bad or discriminatory about that, I mean if people don´t know her they don´t know that she was born in the UK and since so many have arrived in the last 10-20 years it is not unreasonable to assume that she is one of them.

    When I meet somebody with an exotic surname I also ask them where they are from although I usually ask where in the world do people have a surname like that  and I ask, because I am genuinely interested in them and would like to know their story. If people find that offensive, I will certainly stop doing it.

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    The one exception is when he applied for student accommodation he was put in a residence for international students even though he is British-born. When he asked why they told they thought that's what he wanted !! (no kidding)

     

    I think that this was possibly a case of misunderstood kindness, like when people try to anticipate what might offend Muslims and then withdraw something or rename something and most Muslims shake their heads and say why would that offend us.





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  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #223 - June 14, 2010, 03:56 PM

    I don´t see what is so bad or discriminatory about that, I mean if people don´t know her they don´t know that she was born in the UK and since so many have arrived in the last 10-20 years it is not unreasonable to assume that she is one of them.

    When I meet somebody with an exotic surname I also ask them where they are from although I usually ask where in the world do people have a surname like that  and I ask, because I am genuinely interested in them and would like to know their story. If people find that offensive, I will certainly stop doing it.


    It's really not that bad, Paloma, but as someone who's dealt with this most of his life, especially when I was younger, it gets fuckin annoying after a while to have to keep answering, "Well, I'm from two blocks that way, but my dad is from Egypt originally." Or you just tell them where you're from, then, of course, they have to clarify "Oh, I meant where's your family from/where's your name from/what's your background?"

    Nowadays I don't really mind when people ask this question. I know most folks are just curious as to why a White guy has an exotic Muslim/Arabic name, but when you're young it can be really annoying and make you really insecure, because everybody's insecure when they're younger, and for the most part you just wanna "fit in". It's not until you're older that you start to take real pride in the things about you that are different from other people.

    So, no, it's not really that big a thing, but for younger people especially, it can really seem like a big thing at times.

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    I think that this was possibly a case of misunderstood kindness, like when people try to anticipate what might offend Muslims and then withdraw something or rename something and most Muslims shake their heads and say why would that offend us.


    One time I was at a supermarket out in suburban, very White, Minnesota with another organizer as we were assigned to a campaign out there for a couple of months. Anyhow, other organizer is Black and we're lookin around the deli section, and a woman behind the counter looks at my comrade and says "Ya know, we got some chicken left, down on this end", he replies "No that's okay", gets something else, turns around to me and I musta had an ear-to-ear grin on my face, because he looks at me and we both burst out laughing. I say "Hey, she was just tryin to be nice in her own awkward, racist way", and he says "Yeah, I know-- make sure the Black man gets his chicken"

    I still laugh thinking about that.

    fuck you
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #224 - June 14, 2010, 04:09 PM



    OK I see what you mean - I will try to curb my curiousity in the future.


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  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #225 - June 14, 2010, 04:25 PM

    Well, Paloma, a more polite way to ask would be "What kind of name is that?" or just get to the point and ask "What's your ethnic background?" I just wouldn't bother with anyone under the age of 18-- a lot of them just wanna fit in and get uncomfortable with questions like that, ya know? Asking adults is often (though I suppose not always) easier-- many will be happy to tell you about their name or background. Shit-- some will probably give you more information than you want to hear. I know nowadays for me it's no problem, it's just when I was younger.

    fuck you
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #226 - June 14, 2010, 04:33 PM

    I get questions like "where are you from" and "what's your nationality" all the time. Not because of my name, but because of how I look. This is after the fact the persons have listened to my accent (or lack thereof) and still ask me this. I just answer "Canada" and dismiss them pretty rudely from now on.

    Iblis has mad debaterin' skillz. Best not step up unless you're prepared to recieve da pain.

  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #227 - June 14, 2010, 04:40 PM

    After they ask then you should start talking sarcastically in a stereotypical South Asian accent and refer to them as "Sahib" and say things like "Oh my golly gosh, I'm from Canada, born and raised"

    fuck you
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #228 - June 14, 2010, 04:46 PM

    if anybody´has been an exemplary immigrant it is your uncle

    Yeah I know. My grandma always says "he's become English".  Smiley


    and the same goes for what I don´t see what is so bad or discriminatory about that, I mean if people don´t know her they don´t know that she was born in the UK and since so many have arrived in the last 10-20 years it is not unreasonable to assume that she is one of them.

    When I meet somebody with an exotic surname I also ask them where they are from although I usually ask where in the world do people have a surname like that  and I ask, because I am genuinely interested in them and would like to know their story. If people find that offensive, I will certainly stop doing it.

    They didn't understand it. They were White non-Muslim kids who didn't speak a word of Arabic and who lived their entire lives in Northern England yet they were asked repeatedly. So it really annoyed them. Maybe they shouldn't have been annoyed by it but remember they were kids.
    Secondly and most importantly, it wasn't just this. It was the "Paki", "terrorist", "Bin Laden", and particularly the "go back to where you came from".



    I think that this was possibly a case of misunderstood kindness, like when people try to anticipate what might offend Muslims and then withdraw something or rename something and most Muslims shake their heads and say why would that offend us.

    On his application, he indicated he was born in England. His name is Adam.
    Also, they didn't put him in a floor with other British Muslims. They put him in a floor with international students. IIRC, a girl from Nigeria, a couple of Malaysian lads, and a girl from Cyprus.
    He was going to change his room but he changed his mind after her saw the Cypriot hottie. He fell in love at first sight and abandoned his plans. He says he got to second base but I don't believe him. I've seen her when I visited and she's a knockout.  grin12



    One time I was at a supermarket out in suburban, very White, Minnesota with another organizer as we were assigned to a campaign out there for a couple of months. Anyhow, other organizer is Black and we're lookin around the deli section, and a woman behind the counter looks at my comrade and says "Ya know, we got some chicken left, down on this end", he replies "No that's okay", gets something else, turns around to me and I musta had an ear-to-ear grin on my face, because he looks at me and we both burst out laughing. I say "Hey, she was just tryin to be nice in her own awkward, racist way", and he says "Yeah, I know-- make sure the Black man gets his chicken"

    I still laugh thinking about that.

     Cheesy
    Thank god she didn't mention watermelon or grape soda.  Grin


    After they ask then you should start talking sarcastically in a stereotypical South Asian accent and refer to them as "Sahib" and say things like "Oh my golly gosh, I'm from Canada, born and raised"

     Cheesy
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #229 - June 14, 2010, 04:54 PM

    They didn't understand it. They were White non-Muslim kids who didn't speak a word of Arabic and who lived their entire lives in Northern England yet they were asked repeatedly. So it really annoyed them. Maybe they shouldn't have been annoyed by it but remember they were kids.
    Secondly and most importantly, it wasn't just this. It was the "Paki", "terrorist", "Bin Laden", and particularly the "go back to where you came from".


    Heh, sounds almost identical to my situation, except it was the US, so no "Paki" references, and instead of "Bin Laden" it was "Qaddafi" back then.

    fuck you
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #230 - June 16, 2010, 12:16 PM

    But at the same time, I think Pakistanis face more discrimination than Indians and that that too is a contributing factor.


    Mate, do you really think a Sikh boy growing up wearing a turban in a white town faces less discrimination than a Pakistani? Do you really think that Hindu women are not prone to discrimination?

    You gave all the reasons for these differentials. MrSilly gave possible reasons for the differentials in achievment amongst black men in the UK along the Jamaican / Nigerian axis. Where we differ is the degree to which this matters. And I feel sure about this.


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  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #231 - June 16, 2010, 02:16 PM

    I'm not sure about this myself but I feel that Muslims are starting to be the main target of discrimination in the coming few years.

    So let's just agree to disagree.
  • Re: Dutch election:Liberals take one-seat lead as far-right party grows in influence
     Reply #232 - June 26, 2010, 12:27 PM

    I'm always wary and slightly paranoid about living in white society. I used to be carefree but as I grow older I think of all the events in my life in Canada and can't help feel that I've always been and always will be an outsider. Its the little things really. Sure there are the good people who look past race and what not. But they are the few. Most people are tribal in nature and will always be exclusionary on the basis of race I think.

    I don't say this with any pleasure but I simply don't trust most white people. I've always found them to be fair-weather friends who will abandon you at the first sign of trouble. My own race isn't much better of course. I just can't help feel that the supposed friendly multicultural environment of Canada is just a thin veil that hides a lot of how we truly feel about each other.

    Am I mistaken? Perhaps I'm just an ass?


    big town or small town?

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