About Second Wife
SecondWife.com was created to fulfil the dyre need of a section of the women of our Ummah who till now were left without hope of ever having a nikah again.
http://secondwife.com/aboutSo....basically, for "used goods." Women who had been married, but for some reason aren't any more (widowed or divorced). But now that their one commodity that has any value, virginity, is gone, they are "without hope of ever" getting remarried.
Ugh. This reminds me of the guy who ended up ending some "friendships" I had had, and being one of the pivotal moments in my decision to leave Judaism. My "friend" Adina had told me to go on a date with him, so I had. He was insane. He was homeless, living in a car. He had no money, and no plans to ever get on his feet. And worst of all, he had been married and divorced four times. He demanded I tell him my virginity status (and I said I wasn't a virgin because I figured he was not the kind of guy I wanted to spend any more time around and this would be the quickest way to end the conversation). Then he explained why he'd been married four times: He only wants to have sex with virgins, so he marries them, and then divorces them after they spend the first night together. He didn't want anything further to do with me, since I had told him I wasn't a virgin.
I told Adina what an asshole he was and she said "So?" That was when I realized that she didn't actually like me. (As it turns out, she was insane and controlling, and thought I was in a relationship with her husband; I wasn't, he was talking to me about losing his faith and being gay, and not knowing how to leave her crazy ass.)