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  • Hi all
     OP - December 22, 2012, 09:24 PM

    Hi all

    I recently stumbled across this forum, It's good to find a place where I can interact with others with similar views. Here is a little about me and my journey.

    I live in the UK, though my ancestral roots are in Pakistan. I grew up practising Sunni Islam more specifically the Hanafi fiqh and brelvi subsect. I was always quite religious and have never commited the Islamic Vices of pre-marital Sex with western women, alcohol, pork etc. Most of my Muslim brethren have fell to the seductions of the western world but I resisted. They over the years have become more religious, me not so much.  I was exposed to various different schools of thought and the conflicts between Muslims, my confrontations with the Bidah boys (Wahabbi/salafs 'always mentioning Bidah') and the Dawat-e-Islami (I call them Ninja Turtles because of thier iconic green attire and Burka combo),  this got me qurious in to uncovering the TRUE Islam. This lead me Quran Only Islam for a few of my University years and then a year after graduation I dropped religion completely.

    Currently I am Indifferent to the concept/Idea of God but I oppose organised religion completely. My natural curiousity made me a sceptic, my thirst to know things lead me to explore Islamic theology thoroughly . Eventually I came to realise the whole theology is fundamentally flawed.

    My family do not know of my apostasy. My biggest stumbling block to revealing anything is my mother. She gets far to emotionally involved and is getting alot more religious, I cant bear seeing her upset. Thankfully for her failed attempts at emotional blackmail over the years she knows its useless on me, but she could end up deeply depressed. My own deep love for my mother really is hurting my own ambitions. I am eventually planning to tell them within the next 2 years and expect shit to hit the fan. I tried to tell my family I didn't follow hadiths and don't want to celebrate the Prophets birthday(Milad) because it was Bidah, this lead to several family members breaking down in tears. They do not challenge me on Islamic issues because they found my own knowledge of the theology is actually a lot bigger than I let on. This makes them more upset that I do not pray. They don't really nag me as much to pray but I do still go Juma and observe ramadan. I try to avoid the Islamic talks just incase I go on an explosive rant which is becoming alot more difficult, as I hear  more ridiculous ideas.

    I have no regrets leaving other than upsetting my parents and the threat of hell if i'm wrong. I've read through alot of peoples stories here, which makes me understand I am quite fortunate. Islam really did not inhibit me in a profound way but thats probably because it wasn't imposed strictly upon me. My biggest annoyance is probably the effect it had on my potentail social life and my interaction with women. I've always had the opportunity to indulge but guilt made me back off.

    My outlook on life has been alot more refreshing, everything does not seem so down and depressing.

    Thanks for reading
    Peace




  • Hi all
     Reply #1 - December 22, 2012, 11:30 PM

    Welcome to this forum. Your story is very familiar over here.

    Was there something in particular about Islam that made you  believe it was "fundamentally flawed"? Or was it just having a change in perspective one morning that made you dump religion?

    The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.

    William Arthur Ward
  • Hi all
     Reply #2 - December 22, 2012, 11:34 PM

    e-raja

    Thank you for writing such a compelling and detailed and sympathetic introduction. Your love for your mum shines through. People here will be able to understand the dilemmas of family and conscience you are experiencing. Good to have you here  Afro

    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Hi all
     Reply #3 - December 23, 2012, 12:28 AM

    hi and welcome  Smiley
  • Hi all
     Reply #4 - December 23, 2012, 12:36 AM

    Welcome to the forums e-raja. Hope you'll like it here  parrot  bunny
  • Hi all
     Reply #5 - December 23, 2012, 02:03 AM

    Hi all

    Was there something in particular about Islam that made you  believe it was "fundamentally flawed"? Or was it just having a change in perspective one morning that made you dump religion?


    Hello Z-bo, this is a good question, It was a process over time for me but i do feel it clicked eventually, like a eureka moment where it all fell in to place. The main change in perspective was probably understanding the nature of religious faith. Faith is not a good indicator of truth, well atleast faith in an theological context. It just became wishful thinking for me. I want to hold as many true beleifs as possible and we have ways to show what is true or false and faith just did not do it.

    What I mean when i say fundimentally flawed is that the foundation is flawed. Here's couple of reasons why for me.
    The first most obvious is the concept of GOD/ALLAH. The concept requires a definition and the Islamic view of God by its definition is contradictory. One such is the perfect Justice and Perfect Mercy. You also have the Omnipotence paradox and other such. Muslims may argue that god is capable of the inconcievable, but leads to the following problem. Would it not be possible for all religions bieng right about God since God is capable of the inconcievable. Also these contradictory religions can not be concieved as bieng right together by Humans but it wouldn't break a sweat with God because after all he is capable of the impossible. Apologist will argue that God is unknowable and impossible to comprehend (as the quran alludes to in various verses). This Definition is also flawed. God being unknowable makes any statement about him Impossible and pointless. So Muslims can't make claims about God.

    Also how would one distinguish between an unknowable God and one that doesn't exist.

    I've been through the various arguments for God. The main problem I have with all the ones I've come across is the idea of presupposition. They all presuppose the existance of God. You basically have to believe in God first in order to believe the Proof.

    I came across Muslims using the Quran to prove God, I also did this but what I did not realise at the time was the following, The Quran is the claim not the proof. The reasoning just became very circular and again presupposes alot of things.

    The first major flaw I saw in Islam were Hadiths and Hadith Science. I have a background in mathematics and can easily follow choas theory, abstract algebra, set theory etc but for the life of me I could not understand how Hadith were seen as anything more than hearsay and conjecture. I was often confronted with Muslims telling me that only specialised few can truly understand hadith science and it is one of the most advanced sciences, If understanding them required building a time machine then fair enough but come on, you can authenticate the chain to a degree but it is impossible to verify the matn. Let alone the contradictions with what we know of the real world though science. All I found was conjecture supporting conjecture proven by conjecture.

    What made me doubt the Quran was essentually contradictory passages. The most obvious was the Quran being Clear, and easy to understand when it is far from clear and easy to understand. A lot of the quran can be taken to mean anything you want. Another one was that the Quran bieng complete and fully detailed and the co-existance of Hadith.  The quran states it is the criterion but if it requires an explanation it is no longer a criteria and the explanation becomes the criteria. Then theres claims about reality which just don't add up and impossible to verify Like splitting moon, jinn and miracles of biblical prophets, Virgin birth etc.
    Hadith bieng wahi raised an eyebrow for me.

    The argument against the contradictions was that it needed to be read and understood in its original form of arabic. This did not fly with me. Muslim claim that arabic language is perfect. Language is a communication device, the fact that it can not be translated perfectly from arabic implies the that arabic is far from perfect. The linguistic miracle becomes less impressive when one realises the quran is the main basis of arabic grammer.

    The scientific miracles claims were never a big part of my belief as a Muslim but they did play a part in my disbelief. Listening to talks by apologists like Zakir Naik and Hamza Tzortsis really sent me over to abandoning Islam. The reason is the blatant misrepresentation of Ideas/facts, I hold a competent grasp of science, Critical thinking and logic, and when listening I could pick out the flaws in their reasoning straight away. Knowing logical fallacies also helped alot. I remember watching a youtube clip of Hamza Yusuf and his explanation of the omnipotent paradox basically saying that we shouldn't ask questions like this then going on to claiming that the fact we ask the question is proof of God. Huh?. I usely enjoy listening to Apologists but mainly they just use their rhetorical devises and deflect the answer, the Answers generally lack depth.

    A general list of some Ideas which I also found inconsistent :-
    The concept of Hell and God bieng most merciful of the merciful.
    The illusion of free will which is ultimately Gods will.
    The two above combined makes judgement day kind of pointless.
    The idea we send ourselves to hell.
    The Idea of miracles and the impossibility of verification.
    A universal message having a 6th century context. Also clashes with idea of reason for revelation.
    No compulsion and death for apostasy.
    Evolution and the concept of Adam.
    The unfavourable view of women.
    The irrational hatred of non believers.
    The lack of actual evidence for any Muslim claims

    As for the good thing about Islam, fair enough it does have some good values but the major point for me to abandon it completely was that any of the values can be easily derived from secular means. I have not come across a benefit of religion which can not be achieved outside of it.

    This was just a brief couple reasons. Explaining them in more details takes an age. so I kept them as brief as possible.

    Peace




  • Hi all
     Reply #6 - December 23, 2012, 02:08 AM

    Welcome to the forum brother.

     signwelcome

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • Hi all
     Reply #7 - December 23, 2012, 03:42 AM

    I have not come across a benefit of religion which can not be achieved outside of it.

    This is so true, and there's absolutely nothing unique or exceptional about Islam that makes it any truer than the competing religions. Excellent post e-raja  Smiley
  • Hi all
     Reply #8 - December 23, 2012, 04:49 AM

    welcome !!

    Nothing can be more contrary to religion and the clergy than reason and common sense. - Voltaire
  • Hi all
     Reply #9 - December 23, 2012, 05:45 AM

    Welcome parrot

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Hi all
     Reply #10 - December 23, 2012, 07:46 AM

    @e-raja Very nice.

    I must say the response to criticism and counter arguments made by Muslim clerics was also what really cemented my disbelief. I found their arrogance and ignorance so off-putting I couldn't believe how I ever trusted such retards....i actually hated my self for a bit.  At first I was like "ok, this one is a bit loony, i'll check what the other imam has to say". but very quickly I determined they were all equally retarded.

    The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.

    William Arthur Ward
  • Hi all
     Reply #11 - December 23, 2012, 11:37 AM

     parrot

    Quote
    the Islamic Vices of pre-marital Sex with western women,


    So premarital sex with Pakistani women is OK?

    On emotional blackmail, might your mum be seriously depressed and that is why she is going religious? The series Last Tango in Halifax has a very interesting plot about depression.

    I think a general comment here is to keep stumm about your attitudes until you are truly independent.

    When you are a Bear of Very Little Brain, and you Think of Things, you find sometimes that a Thing which seemed very Thingish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.


    A.A. Milne,

    "We cannot slaughter each other out of the human impasse"
  • Hi all
     Reply #12 - December 23, 2012, 12:40 PM

    Hi all thanks for your relpies

    Hi moi, When I stated western women I included muslim women living in the west within that definition. Well in my own experience with Muslims living here they generally have a mindset of everything here is fair game even if it is off limits. Though I should have been more specific with saying that any pre marital sex was an islamic vice.

    I am planning to move out, my parent are actually encouraging me to do so. But their reasons are probably different to my own. I could go and not tell them but I hate lying. Surprisingly I have not told them a direct lie about my beliefs, but I have ommited details.

    Hi z-bo, I always get recommended to read a book by some prominent apologist. Recently there is a craze for Tahir ul Qadri. I've read his works but he says nothing that hasn't been said before. In my own brief analysis of Islam, I've yet to come across an argument which has not been regurgitated and rebranded. Wash, rinse and repeat.

    No offence  to those who obtained a doctorate in some field of Islamic Theology. But I think it is probably the easiest qualification to obtain. Alot of my friends who failed at school went on to become succesful Imams/sheikhs. There is absolutely no original thought, all the thinking has been done lest you be accused of innovation. So all it is, is a task of memorisation and ommiting troubling details. Thats why I don't understand this self righteous and smarter than though attitude Muslim apologists have. They are not thinkers they are mouthpieces to the 6th century.

    peace
  • Hi all
     Reply #13 - December 23, 2012, 12:54 PM

    Hi moi,

    About the depression. In what I've noted is that the stronger her conviction to Islam gets the more depressed she seems to be. She cries in prayer asking God to not punish her Kids and prays for us to be more religious but it doesn't seem to work. She threatens us with Hell occasionlly always asking forgiveness from Hell. This is the same with other members of my extended family i've noted. Though Islam may not be a direct cause it does play a part in multiplying the problem. They are firmly stuck in a mindset that everything is a Sin and test and not to indulge and live a happy life now lest you burn in Hell.

    For myself I did on occasion suffer from mild depression but that all linked to Islam and the threat of Hell. As I let go of that I became a lot happier and more content.

    peace
  • Hi all
     Reply #14 - December 23, 2012, 01:03 PM

    hello  raja saheb...  man you write like raja.. you write so well, where the hell were you all this time?  and how did you find CEMB? Sure you must have been writing  something of that sort i read in your first 2 posts.    I am glad you joined CEMB  greetings and welcome to the den
    .... Recently there is a craze for Tahir ul Qadri. I've read his works but he says nothing that hasn't been said before.............


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4Aw3bOryW4

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sd6Nx9n2qOU
     
    that guy?.. that Joker??.. he ran away from real momins   ..


    Quote
    No offence  to those who obtained a doctorate in some field of Islamic Theology.................

    well that is true to all theologies  and every religion.,  All Ph. D. theologists by definition fit for nothing bums and wasted their lives.   in fact what these guys should do is Ph.D in History of a religion . Evaluating and careful logical analysis of a religion and its historical origins is far more useful than regurgitating the grass they eat from silly religious books for years and years raja saheb.

    So again welcome to CEMB..


    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • Hi all
     Reply #15 - December 23, 2012, 01:03 PM

    Welcome e-raja. Very thoughtful points. Glad to have you join us Smiley

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Hi all
     Reply #16 - December 23, 2012, 01:59 PM

    Hi yeezevee

    I usually get that alot, that I don't come across as a typical UK Paki,. Well my family were insistant that I get a good education, Most of my freinds were not Muslims even though I was quite religious. This resulted in me dropping the UK Desi twang, the YES BRO and INNIT. I usually prefer to speak the language proper and avoid butchering it, though it may come across as arrogant/posh but it easier for others to understand when I do speak.

    I've not actually been engaging in discussions for long and never been in a proper debate but I have been going through alot of Islamic Theology and philoshophy. I've realised that I needed valid justification for my disbelief. One thing I hate is when I get called out as ignorant of some issue by religious muppets like it is impossible to understand/grasp. I am building an archive of knowledge which  hopefully surpasses most popular muslim apologists and then hopefully unleash it on the muslim world. When I was a Quran only muslim I wanted to become more public and guide people to the answers. However that has now changed but the ambition is still there for the future. At the moment though I am not ready and I have plenty still to learn and ponder over. My main motivation is wanting the truth and go as far as I can to get it and then spread it.

    peace
  • Hi all
     Reply #17 - December 23, 2012, 02:26 PM

    Quote
    One thing I hate is when I get called out as ignorant of some issue by religious muppets like it is impossible to understand/grasp.

    I feel ya. I hate that  Roll Eyes When you're debating with some Muslims it's as if basic Islamic precepts and teachings that you were taught as a primary-schooler suddenly become esoteric and requiring years of university-level study to understand.
  • Hi all
     Reply #18 - December 23, 2012, 03:54 PM

    Hi yeezevee

    I usually get that alot, that I don't come across as a typical UK Paki,. Well my family were insistant that I get a good education, Most of my freinds were not Muslims even though I was quite religious. This resulted in me dropping the UK Desi twang, the YES BRO and INNIT. I usually prefer to speak the language proper and avoid butchering it, though it may come across as arrogant/posh but it easier for others to understand when I do speak.

    e-raja  you have wonderful language skills I am sure you are equally good  and skillful in other language/s and in that desi bros speak.  Anyways.. this is today from land of pure by that guy

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LaplT-OGjUQ

    look at that crowd.  How can you and me face that? you can not.,   So,  you need patience... lot of patience when you are dealing with BROS. other wise you get hurt.    You know be patient and smile at every one and live our life and teach/help as much as you can .. And web will help us on that.

    Quote
    I've not actually been engaging in discussions for long and never been in a proper debate but I have been going through alot of Islamic Theology and philoshophy. I've realised that I needed valid justification for my disbelief.............


    don't... don't engage... specially with Bros....  and if you are forced to talk to bros,  then you also need to learn the technique of talking in such a way that you will be at their wave length  .. The Bro talk wavelength..

    Any ways I am so glad you joined CEMB

    with best wishes
    yeezevee

    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • Hi all
     Reply #19 - December 23, 2012, 04:55 PM

    I have no regrets leaving other than... the threat of hell if i'm wrong.  

     I wouldn't worry too much about that if I was you.

    Quote
    ...my interaction with women. I've always had the opportunity to indulge but guilt made me back off.

    Indulge? Meaning fuck? Seems to me that what most repressed British Muslim men need is not a fuck but a female friend. That would really turn the world upside down.
  • Hi all
     Reply #20 - December 23, 2012, 06:03 PM

    Hi

    Yes yeezevee, patience is the key. What the Land of the pure really lacks is a proper education system. They need to be taught how to think, not what to think. It is quite good in elite parts of Pakistan but that same level of education needs to be spread to the more unfortunate. What i've noticed is the willingness to attach blame elsewhere, conspiracy theories are rife and personal responsibility is shifted to the Shaytan or Jinn. The leaders of the country then have the audacity to claim that pakistan is anything but a monumental failure. This can be the same in other failing muslim countries.

    Yes your right about not engaging with Bros, I've developed a couple of test questions just mild reasoning to see what kind of responses they give. This lets me sift out the outright stupid and gullible from the ones who actually care about whats true. It also lets me know how far the person will go before they retreat or get aggressive if I prod far too much.

    Hi David, I agree with what you say about having a female friend. The problem I found was in my own circles most guys were only really interested in hooking up. This did affect me because even if I happened to talk to a girl casually, I use to get jabs thrown that I wanted more than just a casual freindship. Alot of Desi guys assume that if you chatting to woman you want something more. Me having a reputation as a good muslim boy, it basically forced me to keep my distance, so it would not get tarnished.

    Peace.
  • Hi all
     Reply #21 - December 23, 2012, 06:10 PM

    @e-raja. I was really heavily into Hamza Yusuf, Nuh Keller, Abdal-Hakim Murad and that ilk. I really thought they were the intelligentsia. Spent a massive amount on those lectures by Alhambra Productions and following Hamza like he was a rock star or something. Were you part of that ilk or were you on the dark side and followed the salafi's?
  • Hi all
     Reply #22 - December 23, 2012, 06:33 PM

    Why I noted depression is that when I was a teenager I would sometimes hear my mum weeping in the night.  She was also at the time very religious.

    I do wonder sometimes if religious people are basically very unhappy.

    When you are a Bear of Very Little Brain, and you Think of Things, you find sometimes that a Thing which seemed very Thingish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.


    A.A. Milne,

    "We cannot slaughter each other out of the human impasse"
  • Hi all
     Reply #23 - December 23, 2012, 06:35 PM

    Were you part of that ilk or were you on the dark side and followed the salafi's?


     Cheesy As a former member of "the dark side" myself, I offer my hand out to you in truce!

    @ e-raja, I wouldn't worry too much about trying to debate with the BROS. Unless they are sincerely interested in discovering truth, they will do and say anything to defend their own dogmatic stances, all while completely dismissing anything you say. There's simply not enough time in life to waste on people like that.

     Stay curious. Learn enough to know what you believe in and why--not for anyone else's sake, but for your own. Have the courage to follow your own heart, reason, and intuition.  
  • Hi all
     Reply #24 - December 23, 2012, 06:44 PM

    HI Omar

    I never specifically followed anyone, I always listened to their work but remained unaffiliated. Wahabbi/salafs never really interested me, maybe it was all the damning and banning, bieng a mellow and laid back guy they just became far too aggressive for me. I didn't like the conflict within muslims and quite naively thought their was one true way. Everyone kept saying ignore such and such but I just got curious and thought I could probably handle disagreements quite well. Also it helped that my own independent study gave me a unbiased overview and that made it alot easier to discount the stupid ideas.

    Hi moi. Yes I think it is quite widespread. Religious Muslims do seem to be quite unhappy in general that why they turn to religious consolation, rather addressing the root cause and trying to better thier lives. It does not help when the ideology makes people feel worthless.

    Hi happyMurtad, I know what you mean it will get tiresome, but theres always a weak spot. I don't go around looking for debates but rather if I see an oppurtunity for some to benefit then I try to help them.

    peace
  • Hi all
     Reply #25 - December 23, 2012, 06:50 PM



    I do wonder sometimes if religious people are basically very unhappy.

     

    I do think that being a Muslim makes a person intrinsically unhappy, and necessarily so. To believe that there is a celestial Muammar Gaddafi standing by, waiting to torture you for every misspoken word and every un-lowered glance and every unauthorized thought must have serious psychological effects.  Unfortunately, Muslims consider that manic state of paranoia to be a good thing and call it "taqwaa".

  • Hi all
     Reply #26 - December 23, 2012, 10:12 PM

    Quote
    No offence  to those who obtained a doctorate in some field of Islamic Theology. But I think it is probably the easiest qualification to obtain. Alot of my friends who failed at school went on to become succesful Imams/sheikhs. There is absolutely no original thought, all the thinking has been done lest you be accused of innovation. So all it is, is a task of memorisation and ommiting troubling details. Thats why I don't understand this self righteous and smarter than though attitude Muslim apologists have. They are not thinkers they are mouthpieces to the 6th century.


     Afro That is very true.

    I actually encountered this phenomena with an old (albeit younger) friend of mine. A few years ago I remember him telling me he was going to the police academy for training to become a police officer (I should add he didn't do very well in school). I saw him at a wedding some months ago and when I inquired about his police training he immediately blurted out: "who gives me the right to tell what others what to do?". i raised an eyebrow and he went on: "only allah makes laws, these are kufr man made laws no muslim has the right to enforce". he went on ranting about this wonderful country he lives in, how much he hates it, and how he plans to go KSA for 5 years to study arabic/islam.  to say i was disappointed would be an understatement. i was actually happy for him that a fellow muslim/african would enter the police force, but now his sheer fanaticism and unreasonableness made him almost unrecognisable. i immediately thought then, did he have trouble going through the police academy? it is a quite grueling program. did his parents discourage him (his dad was extremely religious)? it is pretty hard to believe someone could have such a drastic change of opinion without the influence of outside factors/significant set backs which could cause depression etc whatever. he's not the only one i've seen that has taken this path either, it's sort of a trend where kids that aren't "straight" or not doing much with their lives/or going through difficulty are often exported overseas to the ME to study religion. it is definitely the cheap easy way out imo.

    The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.

    William Arthur Ward
  • Hi all
     Reply #27 - December 23, 2012, 11:43 PM

    welcome good points.  parrot

    ***~Church is where bad people go to hide~***
  • Hi all
     Reply #28 - December 24, 2012, 01:18 AM

    I like you very much, HappyMurtad  Smiley

    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Hi all
     Reply #29 - December 24, 2012, 02:27 AM

    "No offence  to those who obtained a doctorate in some field of Islamic Theology. But I think it is probably the easiest qualification to obtain."

    I have mixed feelings about this. I was once one of those big bearded "students of knowledge" pacing around the streets of Madina with a pen and a note pad, eagerly waiting for the next words of enlightenment from a Shaikh. While I certainly have come across your typical boneheaded, arrogant, uneducated ex-con turned salafi, that certainly was not the norm. Indeed, most of these morons that return back to the states and the UK to give classes and fiery lectures were actually some of the least successful students. There was definitely an element of rigorous intellectual stimulation and a seriousness about knowledge that existed among many of the students I came across.

    The problem was that the world view that existed among everyone inside of that bubble was so foreign to anything that existed in the outside world that it was impossible to really have ideas based on what we would now all agree are facts. In that world, evolution was not true, women and men were not equal, and apostates were put to death. And no one batted an eye about any of it. That's not to say that people were stupid, quite the contrary. They were just very, very wrong.

     We spent hours, indeed days, months and years, mulling over topics that have no relevance in the 21st century. Everything from whether or not the tanned skin of a dead dog could be used to carry pure water for ritual ablutions to whether or not the shade of Allah's throne could be attributed to himself were discussed and thought about with a dead seriousness.

    I think that the likes of Tariq Ramadan are jokes not because they have liberal views, but because they try to make Islam into something that it is not. Islam is not pro multi-culturalism, Islam does not teach that men and women are equal, and Islam does not respect the rights of apostates. To argue that it does is beyond misleading.
     
    For me, my parents, who were black Americans, converted to Islam back in the 60's after a brief dabble in the "Nation of Islam." They raised me in an educated environment that was American but had an emphasis on Islam rather than Christianity--and I was in tuned with this difference growing up. I could relate equally with both identities. I adopted the whole Salafi approach in my early twenties not because I was slow or uneducated, but because I'd hoped  that a "truer" version of Islam would be the key to many of the perceived problems I found in the world around me.

    I left Islam not because I hated it or because I felt oppressed, but because once I realized what Islam actually taught, I knew that it was not true.



    Would you agree or disagree with the statement that a degree in islamic theology requires less intellectual stimulation as a somewhat related academic pursuit such as I dunno say arabic literature.  

    You said you studied islamic theology so doesn't the debate get boring when you only have so few references to back your arguments. I mean your pretty much restricted to quran, hadith and a couple of book on fiqh right?

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
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