No, you do not pity people like that. You despise them.
Allhandulillah. I used to use my right hand to masturbate. I prayed to Allah to alleviate me of this suffering and no matter how hard I tried I could not help but masturbate to pictures of Dame Edna and Mo Mowlam. Subhan'Allah, my prayer was answered when my right hand was severed in a freak accident involving pair of nail clippers. Those who say that Allah ignores His believers should take this example and be safe in the knowledge that no matter who you are or what you've done that Allah will have mercy upon you and show you the path to Him. Indeed He has said in the Qur'an majid:
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And when My servants ask you concerning Me, then surely I am very near; I answer the prayer of the suppliant when he calls on Me, so they should answer My call and believe in Me that they MAY walk in the right way.”
Q. 2:186