Let me elaborate before people begin thinking I am just trolling:
Weak? So you call me a weak because I am not a hedonist like you who doesn't have any problem having had several bedpartners before becoming serious?
You call me weak because my life isn't shaped by my lowerly animal instinct, but rather I have self-discipline.
Weak because I don't succomb to any quick&dirty pleasures of the flesh?
Religion is no doubt outdated and childish. But this doesn't mean one has to reject all the morals it preached.
Marriage is no doubt a religious concept, my idea of "marriage" is having a serious relation. Before being really serious, I don't understand how being promiscuous could be something innocent or without consequences.
Often people can get emotionally shattered and confused due to bad experiences. Also, when one gets married, (s)he might still be contacted by some earlier partner who still desires him/her, thus jeopardizing the whole family and affecting (possible) kids.
No, I call you weak because it would shatter you. To be shattered by someone's past choices to me is weak.
Plus, you cam on here make large generalisations about how people 'like me'
are responsible for emotional divorce and emotional hardness of our times.
You made a judgement, you got a reaction. You choose to be virginal and desire one, I choose not to, did I come on here and say judgemental prudes are responsible for all the negative things that have been done to control women through history?
Now if you had said you are a virgin, and want a virgin like you because you want it to be special, then fair enough, but when you start fucking making judgements against people who don't want what you want, don't be surprised you get a reaction.
Add to that your "OMG it would shatter me" weakness.
I actually know a grown man who is a virgin and waiting for the one, would you believe his one doesn't have to be a virgin? it wouldn't shatter him, because his esteem doesn't rest upon who she loved before him.
But in truth it is your sort of mentality who judges people for their sexual choices, because its that particular sort of weakness that generates it.